Yep, That’s right, a second Ace Diversity blog is here!
Ace Diversity is a blog series where I let other asexuals share their stories to show how diverse the asexual community is.
Today I have an Anonymous story for you.
 | Name: A
Age: 22
Pronouns: she/her
From: The US
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I’d say I’m a sex favorable romantic demisexual. To save time, I identify as asexual and feel more connected to the general label anyway. Quite honestly, I’ve only ever been sexually attracted to my current partner, despite having relationships in the past and having more crushes than I could count. Being demisexual, to me, means being asexual until you are not, and for that to happen a deep, emotional connection has to be formed. The thought of having sex with strangers, or even seeing a stranger as sexually attractive, baffles and repulses me, though if you do that, do you! I’m very sex-positive when the sex does not involve me.
Finding out I’m ace was more like finding out that everyone else wasn’t kidding or exaggerating when they described their interest in sex. Sex is not something I really think about, nor something I crave or get cranky when I go without. The amount of times someone has had to explain to me that a song was really about sex is quite honestly alarming. But with my partner, I feel comfortable enough with the idea of having sex with him. (simply because I like doing new and intimate things with him) and to completely stop doing the do for a year if I so chose to, knowing he’d be fine with either.
I’m writing to you today because I appreciate what you’re doing trying to spread information about what asexuality can look like. I want all my black, femme aces to know that even though society is hypersexualizing you, it has nothing to do with you. You don’t owe anyone anything. I also want anyone reading this who currently identifies as allo but has questioned if they are ace to really lean into investigating that, as it can be scary at first but is tremendously relieving to confirm that there is nothing wrong with you.
Take care,
Anonymous
First, I want to thank this acesome Anonymous person for sharing her story!
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